When do you know when you are ready for a relationship? How can you ensure that the other person is happy with you? How can you be ready to take on such a huge responsibility of ensuring the other is truly happy when with you? Isn't being an individual enough, why do we need another special person? Why would we want that huge responsibility? I like him, but do I like him enough? Do I have to like enough to get together with him? What if I'm a really bad partner? Am I worthy of him? What do I do, what do I not do? What should I expect, what should I not? What if he gets irritated? What if it fails?
I have so much fear it really overrides everything else.
Mine is 7 months old and counting
1 comment:
i guess no one really knows when they are ready for a relationship. just a feeling perhaps? and i dont think being in a relationship is about ensuring that the other person is happy with you. if both of you feel comfortable with each other and enjoy each others' company, why not give things a try? in my opinion, i think theres no harm in giving each other a chance to try things out.
feelings can be developed through time, dont worry about whether you like him enough or not. no point thinking/worrying so much even before you start anything. just follow your heart, and let nature take its course my dear. time will tell! (:
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